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I am a single woman and want to date a man at work

Question:

I am a single woman, 26-35. I am very attracted to a Man at work and would like to go out on a date with him. I only know him to say "Hello" to and I have found out that he is single. I am well educated and dress very well and have been asked out for dates by many Men, but I have never asked a Man to go out on a date. What should I do?

Answer:

The first thing you have to do is let him know, in a nice way, you’re interested in him. Then he will either respond or not respond. As an attractive woman, you know there is nothing worse than a man coming on to you when the feeling isn’t mutual. That’s how he will feel if he doesn’t share your interest.

Let him know you’re interested using class, style and dignity...

Here’s how to let him know you’re interested using class, style and dignity: When you see him coming, establish eye contact with him, smile and *stop walking*. Just stand there, where ever it is, and let him either walk up to you or walk by you.

If he keeps walking, at least you tried. If he stops, say hi to him and ask him what his name is. If he’s interested, he’ll encourage the conversation.

After you talk with him for a while, end the conversation without asking him out until you see him again. Then, when you see each other again, pick up the conversation where you left off. If he doesn’t ask you out and you think he’s interested, say, “Maybe we could get together sometime for lunch.”

If he responds favorably, make plans to get together with him.

Good luck and God Bless.